E. Jean Carroll, a well-known advice columnist and writer, recently made headlines when she revealed that she had been sexually assaulted by Donald Trump in the mid-1990s. In her new book, “What Do We Need Men For? A Modest Proposal,” Carroll describes the alleged assault in detail, and explains why she never reported it to the authorities.
According to Carroll, the incident took place in a dressing room at Bergdorf Goodman, a high-end department store in New York City. She says that Trump, who was a well-known businessman at the time, approached her and asked for her help in picking out a gift for a woman. After they had selected a piece of lingerie, Carroll alleges that Trump pushed her up against a wall, pulled down her tights, and raped her.
Carroll’s account of the alleged assault is graphic and disturbing, and has been met with both support and skepticism. But regardless of whether or not her story is true, it raises important questions about why so many victims of sexual assault choose not to report their experiences to the authorities.
In an interview with CNN, Carroll explained that she did not report the alleged assault because she felt ashamed and embarrassed. “I blamed myself,” she said. “I thought, ‘Why did I wear this coat? Why did I go into the dressing room with him?'”
Carroll’s feelings of shame are not uncommon among victims of sexual assault. Many survivors blame themselves for what happened to them, even though they are not at fault. This can make it difficult for them to come forward and seek justice.
In addition to feelings of shame, victims of sexual assault may also fear retaliation or disbelief from others. They may worry that they will be blamed for what happened to them, or that they will be ostracized by their community or workplace.
These fears are not unfounded. Studies have shown that victims of sexual assault often face skepticism and hostility when they report their experiences. They may be asked intrusive questions about their behavior or clothing, or accused of lying or exaggerating.
This is why it is so important for society to create a culture of support and understanding for victims of sexual assault. We need to believe survivors when they come forward, and provide them with the resources and support they need to heal and seek justice.
Carroll’s decision to speak out about her alleged assault is a brave and important step towards breaking down the stigma and shame that often surrounds sexual assault. By sharing her story, she is helping to raise awareness about the prevalence of sexual violence, and encouraging others to come forward and seek help.
If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, it is important to know that you are not alone. There are resources available to help you heal and seek justice, including hotlines, counseling services, and legal support. Remember that it is never your fault, and that you deserve to be heard and believed.
